Q&A: What does the lovers card mean?

What does the lovers card mean?
My tarot card reader told me it was bad…well In My situation

Suggestion by Vic
Lovers Tarot Card Meanings and Description

Upright Lovers Tarot Card Meanings

The Lovers represent perfection, harmony and mutual attractiveness. Their trust in one another gives them strength and confidence to overcome the obstacles in life. The bond that the two lovers has created is incredibly strong and is often reflective of a marriage, soul mate connection or very intimate and close relationship.

The Lovers can also indicate a very strong sexual connection that goes beyond instant gratification and lust to suggest a very deep desire and passion that exists between two beings. The physical attraction is strong and so too is the desire to be intimate with one another.

On a more personal level, the Lovers card represents the establishment of a personal belief system and becoming clearer about your own values. This is a time when you are figuring out what you stand for and what your personal philosophy on life is. Having gone through the indoctrination of the Hierophant, you are now ready to establish your own belief system and make up your own mind about what is and what is not important in life. This is also a time when you need to stay true to yourself and be as authentic and genuine as possible.

The Lovers also represents choices on a grand scale. A dilemma will be presented demanding an action or decision, and you will want to decipher the best way to proceed or make the right choice. Something is going to change your plans or the course of your experience, something that may look negative on the surface but will later prove to be a blessing in disguise.

When the Lovers card appears in a reading, it is important to think about what decisions and choices you are facing. The fact that the Lovers is a Major Arcana card indicates that these decisions or choices are incredibly important and significant so it is essential that you choose the right path. There may be an easy option available but you will need to ask yourself whether this is the right path for you in the long run. Oftentimes, it is the more difficult path that will bring you the greatest benefit, particularly on a deeper level. your options and your personal values.

Reversed Lovers Tarot Card Meanings

The Lovers reversed indicates that you are avoiding responsibility for the consequences of your own actions. You have made a rushed decision based purely on your desire for instant gratification and now you are trying to lay the blame on others or on fate. You must do what you can to make amends but if this is not possible, let the past go and resolve to make better choices in the future.

The Lovers reversed can also indicate inner conflicts and being at war with yourself rather than with external forces. It suggests disharmony and difficulty in being able to balance your own inner union. Perhaps you are punishing yourself for something you have done or feel responsible for? To help you out of this situation, you will need to focus on clearly articulating your personal belief systems and values. This will help to guide you in making better decisions next time. In addition, you may need to return to the energy of the Hierophant and seek the counsel and advice of an institution or spiritual mentor.

In a relationship reading, the Lovers reversed indicates that there may be some imbalance. You may feel that a once-close union is starting to fragment and break down. Your vibrations with each other may be out of tune, and you may feel as though you are both out of harmony. Despite an immense amount of potential when you first met, this potential is now being brought into question. You are starting to realise that your values are actually different and your visions of the future are different. These fundamental differences may be a showstopper for the relationship if they cannot be resolved.

The Lovers reversed may also reflect that the feelings within a relationship are not mutual. One person in the partnership may have stronger feelings than the other and may be more emotionally involved. This could lead to disappointments later down the track and feelings of insecurity about the relationship. You may be reluctant to open your heart up to the relationship for fear of getting hurt.

Suggestion by Elaine M
It’s two individuals who work well together. This can mean co-workers, friends, lovers, family or any other situation where two people have to accomplish something together.

The reversal is a bit different.

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Its about Tarot Cards…?
i recently got my first deck from a really close friend and it was inseparable to me i always felt like had to shuffle it or touch it, i would always cleanse them and everything but recently one of them (the king of swords) got wrinkled is it safe for me to keep using them even though one card is wrinkled i mean its not fully wrinkled its only half way …i really feel close to my cards and i don’t want new ones T.T so can someone help me?
okay soo i understand some other people might find this question weird…. i trust the tarot and i know it may not be right for some peopleITS NOT SATANIC! an im not that obbssesd with my cards >.>

Suggestion by Kandice
Burn them please;

If you know what is best for you,

They are Satanically inspired.

Suggestion by Minnie C
There’s nothing wrong with tarot cards and it’s not like you’re using them to curse people or anything so you can keep them.

Suggestion by Lyprith
Wrinkled is fine, you can still use them.
One of my pet rats stole a couple of my cards and chewed the corners, but they were still fine to use. As long as you feel that connection to them you should keep them, you’ll know if there comes a time when you should get rid of them.

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