Q&A: In tarot, what does the “The Lovers” card reversed mean in the outcome/future position?

In tarot, what does the “The Lovers” card reversed mean in the outcome/future position?
I have done a few tarot readings about meeting my half-brother (sane father who was forced to give him up in a divorce but raised me) for the first time soon (i am 22 and he is in his early 30′s). I get “The Lovers” tarot card in reverse in the outcome position everytime. What does that mean?

Suggestion by Vic
Reversed Lovers Tarot Card Meanings
The Lovers reversed indicates that you are avoiding responsibility for the consequences of your own actions. You have made a rushed decision based purely on your desire for instant gratification and now you are trying to lay the blame on others or on fate. You must do what you can to make amends but if this is not possible, let the past go and resolve to make better choices in the future.

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In tarot, I got “The Lovers” card reversed for the outcome when I asked about finding a job? Answers?
I did a tarot reading and I asked about possibly finding a job soon since I will begin looking harder. I got The Lovers reversed in the outcome position. What could this mean?

Suggestion by Maka
it meant do it again.

Suggestion by K. Plesner
Tarot cards tell us absolutely nothing. This has been shown repeatedly. Believing otherwise is nothing but wishful thinking.

Suggestion by Jenna White
I say this alot when I answer Tarot related questions. The future is not predictable. You cannot divine an answer, and if you think you can, you’re a moron.

That being said, Tarot should be used if you can’t think of a next logical step on your own. Use the meanings of the cards as options, and extrapolate a possibility, nothing more.

A reversed Lovers card can mean you are going about your path the wrong way, or that the outcome you want will happen, but it won’t make you happy. I suggest meditating on it. When looking for a job, don’t just take whatever you can get. If you aren’t atleast somewhat happy with what you are doing, or enjoy the people you work with, you are going to be miserable. Look for a career you would either enjoy, or be interested in learning.

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What are the meanings of these 2 tarot cards (reversed)?
1. Justice – reversed meaning
2. 8 of cups – reversed meaning

Please give the reverse meaning, thanks.

Suggestion by Lily B.
Justice reversed:
Introduction: Whether reversed or upright, Justice deals with the idea of karma and the law of cause and effect, stating that all events, and all people, are connected. Not everything you are dealing with, however, is a direct result of your own actions or karma. Sometimes you will be called upon to deal with the results of the actions of someone you care about, and this can sometimes be as difficult and demanding as it is when you’re up against something that is completely of your own making. In reversal you are especially encouraged to know whether a given issue is “yours” or someone else’s. Don’t blame yourself unnecessarily.

General: In reverse, this card can mean that you are feeling currently as though something happening in your life is particularly unjust. You may well be correct. However, there may not be a great deal that you can do about it, and if there is not, it will be important to accept reality and not chafe too much.

Work: When Justice comes up in reverse in the context of a work question, you may indeed be being treated unfairly in your workplace. However, there may not be a great deal which you can do to change this in the short term. Think critically and logically about what is happening and do not allow emotion to make you “cut off your nose to spite your face.” Even when reversed, this card carries the warning that you need to be sure that your work/life balance is where it needs to be. Too much emphasis on either aspect of life throws the other into imbalance. Seek the best advice you can find before making any major changes with regard to your working life. Yes, things may be unjust. However the solution may be of longer term than simply leaving or creating a confrontation about it. Slow down.

Love: When you draw Justice in reverse, in the context of a love relationship, it can be very important that you look carefully at exactly what you are bringing about in this relationship. You may feel that you have been treated unfairly when this card appears (and this may be the case,) however it’s important to bear in mind that such things rarely come about in a vacuum. How might you have contributed to the current situation or current difficulties, if you are currently in a relationship? When you draw this card in reverse and you are looking for love, know that although you may feel as though you are ready for a long-term, loving relationship, that there may be ways in which you are standing in your own way to prevent love from coming to you. For example, if you are too eager to make changes to your own life, in order to “fit” with a partner, you may in fact need to develop stronger boundaries and a stronger sense of self before a true, loving, long term relationship will come about for you. Meditation on these matters can be helpful now.

Finances: With Justice in reverse showing, this is unlikely to be a good time for gambling. Be cautious and prudent with your money, and see to it that particularly with cash, you are careful where you put it and who has access to it. If you are waiting on an answer to financial issues and questions that must come from someone else/an institution, unfortunately you my have to wait a while longer. Try to be patient.

Health: Even when Justice is drawn in reversal, in the context of health, we are reminded that it is important to “stay in the moment” and to pay attention to how we are endeavoring to keep a sense of balance in our lives. Moderation is not just for monks, it’s an important part of living a sensible and healthy life. This is a good and an important time to seek advice from more experienced people and different healers if you are having health difficulties.

Spirituality: Regardless of what is going on in your life and even if you feel that you have been absolutely unfairly treated, this is a time to work on being centered and grounded. Your anger and sense of maltreatment are not going to help you. If you are really having a tough time dealing with what life has challenged you with now, you may find the writings of the current Dalai Lama very helpful and inspirational. Increase your compassion, for yourself, and for the world. You are not being singled out for torment.

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Suggestion by Zac Vanderhorst
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Suggestion by Tea
1. Justice reversed – Allowing your personal biases, hopes and fears to effect your decisions. Choosing emotionality over rationality. Choosing mercy over justice/fairness.
2. 8 of Cups reversed – An unwillingness to abandon a situation that just isn’t working out….mostly because you’ve probably invested a lot of time, energy, emotion and maybe even money into the situation.

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